Are You Sabotaging Your Love Life?

This quiz is designed to help you uncover any negative subconscious programs that may be sabotaging your love life.

Have a piece of paper ready to write down your answers as you go.

Be honest with yourself and go with your gut level response.

Give yourself:

1 point for every ‘somewhat or sometimes’ response, and 2 points for every c. response.

Q1: How do you view love and being loved and accepted by another?

a. I feel comfortable and believe I am deserving of love.


b. I feel somewhat deserving but have some doubts.


c. I feel uncomfortable and often doubt my worthiness.

Q2: Do you feel worthy and deserving of love?

a. Yes, absolutely.


b. Sometimes, but I have my doubts.


c. I often feel unworthy.

Q3: Do you think you have to be perfect before you can find true love?

a. No, I believe I can be loved as I am.


b. Sometimes, I feel like I must improve myself to be loved.


c. Yes, I believe I need to be perfect to be loved.

Q4: Does the thought of being loved and accepted make you feel uncomfortable?

a. No, I feel comfortable with the idea.


b. Sometimes, it does.


c. Yes, it makes me feel very uncomfortable.

Q5: Have you given up on finding true love?


a. No, I still believe I will find true love.


b. I have mixed feelings and sometimes feel like giving up.

c. Yes, I have completely given up.

Q6: Do you have unrealistic expectations of your desired partner?


a. No, I have realistic expectations.


b. Sometimes, I have high expectations and find faults in others.


c. Yes, and I often make excuses as to why no one is ever good or right enough for me.

Q7: Are you measuring your expectations against societal, cultural, and social media dictates?

a. No, I form my own opinions and expectations.

b. Sometimes, I find myself influenced by them.


c. Yes, very much so.

Q8: Based on your past relationships, do you see any patterns that keep coming up?

a. No, every relationship seems unique.


b. Occasionally, I see certain patterns.


c. Yes, I notice the same patterns repeating.

Q9: Do you tend to attract the same type of personality?

a. No, I attract different types of personalities.


b. Sometimes, but not always.


c. Yes, I attract the same type.

Q10: Are you open and optimistic about finding love?

a. Yes, I am very open and optimistic.


b. Sometimes, I feel hopeful but have doubts.


c. No, I am skeptical and not very optimistic.

Q11: Are you wary of anyone who shows interest in you?

a. No, I am generally open to interest from others.


b. Sometimes, I am cautious.


c. Yes, very much so.

Q12: What are your obvious emotional triggers that you feel are getting in your way?

a. I don’t think I have any significant emotional triggers.


b. I have some triggers, but they don’t often interfere.


c. I have significant emotional triggers that often get in the way.

Q13: Do you have self-sabotaging behaviors when it comes to dating?

a. I don’t think I have any major self-sabotaging behaviors.


b. I sometimes notice self-sabotaging behaviors.


c. I recognize many self-sabotaging behaviors.

Thank you for taking the quiz!

Now total up your points and see the insights below based on your answers.

Based on your responses, here are some insights:

0-7 points: Minimal negative subconscious programs detected.
You seem to have a healthy view on love and relationships. Keep nurturing these positive beliefs and continue on your journey toward true love.

8-14 points: Possible negative subconscious programs may be present.
You might have some subconscious beliefs that are undermining your love relationships.

15-20 points: Based on your quiz results, it looks like there may be one or more negative subconscious programs affecting your love relationships.

No matter what your score is, don’t worry, as you can erase those negative subconscious programs, and then begin to create a happy and loving relationship!